Strengthening Resilience of Sakinah Families in New Normal Adaption

Pesantren-Based Counseling Perspective

DOI

10.2991/assehr.k.210421.029How to use a DOI?

Keywords

pesantren literature, sakinah family, new normal adaptation

Abstract

Families are among the social units affected during the COVID-19 Pandemic. Therefore, strengthening the character of the Sakinah family is important. The personality traits of the Sakinah family will appear in their peace of mind and heart. This study aims to determine the personality portrait of the sakinah family in pesantren (Islamic boarding school) literary texts, namely the “Zadu Az-Zaujayn” and “Syair Madura” books from the perspective of marriage counseling. This study used a qualitative approach with the ethnographic-hermeneutic type. The steps in this research are collecting text and reference books, interpreting presuppositions, and presenting historical reality. The results of this study indicate that the personality of the sakinah married couple is 1) able to control themselves, namely wara’(careful and able to control oneself by leaving something that is doubtful and useless), zuhud (simple life and more concerned with the interests of others). and sabar (patient, graceful and courageous in facing difficulties); 2) acceptance of life as it is, namely qona’ah (accepting the existing reality), ridha (peace of mind accepting the provisions of Allah), and ikhlas (sincere, the act of cleansing and purifying the heart of other than Allah); and 3) self-presentation (a deliberate attempt to act in a certain way that creates a special impression of oneself). This research is important to develop so that we reach the Sakinah family during the adaptation period for new normal adaption.

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© 2021, the Authors. Published by Atlantis Press.

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This is an open access article distributed under the CC BY-NC license (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/4.0/).

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TY  - CONF
AU  - Samsul Arifin
AU  - Mokhammad Baharun
PY  - 2021
DA  - 2021/04/22
TI  - Strengthening Resilience of Sakinah Families in New Normal Adaption
BT  - Proceedings of the International Conference on Engineering, Technology and Social Science (ICONETOS 2020)
PB  - Atlantis Press
SP  - 202
EP  - 209
SN  - 2352-5398
UR  - https://doi.org/10.2991/assehr.k.210421.029
DO  - 10.2991/assehr.k.210421.029
ID  - Arifin2021
ER  -